How to Love Again

Once your heart has been broken, it can be very difficult to love again. Some people never move past a broken heart. However, you can learn to love again, even after being emotionally wounded by a failed relationship or a lost love. To deprive yourself of love is to miss out on one of life’s biggest blessings. Here is how to love again.




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Grieve your losses. Before you will be ready to love again, you need to heal the pain that your lost love has inflicted. Whether you lost your love through a failed relationship or the death of a loved one, your lost love left emotional wounds. Grieve your losses so you will free yourself to love again.

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Recognize the need to love again. Loving others is one of the most basic needs of human existence. Without love, life is meaningless. While you might need to take some time to lick your emotional wounds, closing off your heart to love will make your life seem empty.

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Decide that loving again is worth the risk. While you are still in the grieving process, your heart might feel too fragile to take the risk of loving again. However, as you grieve your loss and become more emotionally healthy, you will move toward being ready to open up your heart again.

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Love yourself. The more you love yourself, the more likely you are to attract a person who is emotionally healthy. If you go out looking for love to fill a hole in your heart, then you are much more likely to attract someone who wants to take advantage of you. However, if you come from the perspective of having lots of love to give, then you will attract a similar person.

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Think about what you want in a new relationship. Set a standard for what you are seeking in a new relationship. Make it a point to progress in this relationship, and don't fall into old patterns just because they are comfortable.

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Let the love come to you. Don’t go out looking for “the right girl” in places where singles congregate. Instead, get involved in activities which you enjoy that bring you into contact with people who have the same interests. Whether you do this through a church, a bowling league or a city tennis club, get involved in your community in a positive manner.

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Ease into a new relationship slowly. Do not try to replace the lost relationship. Instead, allow a new one to grow and blossom in its own way

when ppl ignor you ...

Sometimes, silence is the only answer you get when someone want to give you an answer for a question , its hurt when some people say nothing when you want them to say , to speak about the things that you want them to say but they can't , maybe they lost the trust in their self , maybe they lost the hope in trusting you or maybe they lost the hope in trusting them self's , you feel that they don’t want to open their self to you again , maybe there is other ppl force them to stay away from you cause of something you did in the past , what every good thing you do they will understand it bad , nobody can control any one actions , you can't tell a liar to stop from lying , you can't tell someone to stop speaking behind your back , you can't force someone to fall in love with you , we all have feeling toward someone or something , some ppl shows it and some ppl hide it but in the end they will show it , maybe it might be too late to show a feeling or maybe it isn't , ppl will change on you because of someone else and you stand like that and you can't do anything , all I have to say that what will you feel when someone will do the same thing you did ?, what if you know that the same person who made you troubles made some other ppl change on you ?
What if that person made these ppl believe of lies about you?
What if you found out that this person is so wrong about me ?
I swear that in time like he did that with me , he will do the same thing to you or some other ppl . remember my words girl .

today is my birthday i am 35 years old now

today is my birthday , i am 35 years old , 04/10/1975 , many things has happened , i sold my 4x4 and i am saving the cash to get a new 4x4 this month or next month , anyway thank for all who remembered me in that day :)

بوية طلعت 13 ألف دينار في أقل من 8 أشهر - قصة حقيقية صارت في الكويت ))

بوية طلعت 13 ألف دينار في أقل من 8 أشهر (( قصة حقيقية صارت في الكويت ))

اليوم كاتب لكم قصة أنشاء الله تتعظون منها و تديرون بالكم من بعض البنات
في سنة من السنين تعرفت على بوية عن طريف صديق كان عمرها 17 سنة أيامها ما تشتغل و معاشها على والدها المتوفي و كان قليل
كانت تربطني علاقة حميمة و استمرت علاقتي معاها فوق 4 سنوات
ليه حد ما صار موقف غير نظرتي عليها و انهيت علاقتي معها من سنين و هذا اللي بتكلم فية الحين علشان اتعم الفائدة على الجميع
اللي صار حبايبي أنه في يوم من اليوم هذي البوية مرت علي و ركبت سيارتها و لما شفتها استغربت من شكلها لأن كانت متهاوشة و صوب عينها البياض اللي داخل عينها كان لونة أحمر كله دم و بعدين عطتني ظرف فية مبلغ 7 ألف دينار فسألتها من وين لج هذا فقالتي القصة .
القصة أن هذي البوية كانت رايحه حفله مستانسه تشرب و ترقص داخل البيت اللي صايرة فية الحفلة بعد ما علت بالمشروب و صارت طينة راحت و رسمتلها غلى رجل متزوج و عسكري رتبه في أحدى مؤسسات العسكرية في الدولة و متزوج و عند من زوجته أولاد بس المشكلة أن الرجل عنده صديقة و ياي وياها هذي الحفلة , طبعا اللي صار ان البوية جعدت ترقص و تتحرش برفيجه هالرجل , قام الرجل هذا و كلم البوية , قامت البوية و طولت لسانها غلى الرجل هذا فقام الرجل هذا بتهاوش مع البوية و ضربها في الكرسي على وجهها .
راحت البوية الى المستشفى و سوت تثرير طبي و راحت فية المخفر و قومي رفعي قضية .
بعد 3 أيام أتصلت رفيجة الرحل المتزوج في البوية غلشان اتخلي البوية تتنازل باي ظريقة , فقالت البوية ما أتنازل بقل من 10 ألف دينار طبعا صار تفاوظ ليه ما قبلت البوية ب 7 ألف دينار , راحو حق محامي و سلمها الرجل الشيك و سوت تنازل رسمي تحت وجود شهود .
بعدها ب 4 شهور تكرر نفس الموضوع مع شخص ثاني و بسيناريو ثاني و خذت منه 6 ألف دينار , من بعد السالفة الثانية بعدت عن البوية هذي و مشاكلها .
أطلعت هذي البوية تختار ضحاياها و تسأل عنهم عدل قبل ما تسوي هالشي و تنقي الرجال اللي يدفعون علشان ما تكبر مشاكلهم نفس صاحبنا اللي متزوج و عنده رفيجه .
فبعد ما سألت و تأكدت من موضوعها قررت أني أتركها لأنها أطلعت صاحبة مشاكل و ليش لا يمكن بعد أتسويها فيني لأن نفسعا دنيا و أهيا ورا القلوس .
العبرة في الموضوع : أنا أقول أنه مو كل البنات نفس البنت هذي أو البوية هذي بس , الواحد لما يمر بوحده جذيه لازم يعرف أشلون بتصرف بعقل و يبعد من عالنوع من البويات اللي ما وراهم الا المشاكل من عير ما تحدث أي مشاكل , طبعا القصة حقيقية و ما رح أقول أسم هالبوية علشان ما تنعرف الله يستر عليها .

الله يبعدكم من هالاشكال و يحفظكم من المشاكل .

If I can go years back what will i do

If I can go years back what will i do

I will never lose the chance to fall in love
I will never betray someone trust
I will never lose a friend that loves me from her/his heart
I will never miss any moment with my beloved mom and kiss her in the head god rest her soul
I will never let a friend fall in problems for any reason because of me
I will not let any friend secret spread because of a problem
I will not make up problems to keep someone away from my friends
I will not convenes any friend that a friend is bad
I will never be forced to do things that hurt any one
I will be me and never change in anyone eye
I will know the limits when it comes to any relationship
I will choose my friends carefully and wisely
I will correct all the wrongs that I did to any one and make it up to them
If I can go back I'll say I am sorry for all who thought that i been bad
because nobody is prefect life teach us and we learn from it each day new things which makes our life better , but now we are living in the present and life takes far from these years to become who we are
it's never too late
whoever who is still with us in that road they are lifting us up and high to live on their ways , to enjoy each moment which we still have , whatever these people are friends of any kind , family , or lovers , along the road your place remain in my heart if you are close or far , I love you all cause life doesn't worth all this pain .
From a heart of human to another
God bless you all

my Camaro ss 2010 kitt scanner light

Here is my camaro ss 2010 after i installed knightlight scanner light color white and blue , the 1st car in kuwait to be installed in :)

GRANDMONTHER SUDDEN DEATH

My grandmother died today at 7 pm at age 83 , we are going to bury her tomorrow the funeral will take place on solybekat graveyard . God rest her soul